http://johndhine.com/2010/01/16/some-things-are-hard-to-admit/ Recipes to Enjoy! Sat, 22 May 2010 13:48:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://johndhine.com/2010/01/16/some-things-are-hard-to-admit/#comment-210 Mon, 18 Jan 2010 23:59:56 +0000 http://johndhine.com/?p=361#comment-210 You have to do what is right for you and Shannon. Realizing this now before you had already gone through with it is a huge blessing. It isn’t a selfish or uncaring act that made you decide this. It must be the right thing for you and the child. It is more thoughtful and kind not to put a child through it if you aren’t 100% sure. Who knows, some day in the future you might change your mind, but for now go with what you think is best. God leads us in the right direction if we will listen to him. This has been a great process in your own self discovery. The things you had to do to get ready for this has probably been exactly what you needed to help you figure things out. Who knows where this will lead for you. You are a great and caring person and we love you very much!!!

]]> http://johndhine.com/2010/01/16/some-things-are-hard-to-admit/#comment-209 Sun, 17 Jan 2010 03:55:07 +0000 http://johndhine.com/?p=361#comment-209 wow…how hard that has to have been!!! We all love you, and understand. This has been a great process for you and Shannon. Whether you decide to not ever adopt or just postpone it, we understand ,and it takes a much greater person to acknowledge and put a child first and say I am not what I want for my child. Very unselfish… You have been through a lot in your life, never been able to fully trust anyone, or motives. Shannon has been such a blessing in your life, maybe you needed this process to fully understand this!!!! Don’t beat yourself up over this decision, just learn from it. We love you….

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